Keep Using Your Words — It Makes a Difference

Nifemi Aikomo
3 min readJun 11, 2024

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I’ve always aimed to write on Medium at least once every three months. It’s like a mental checkbox I like to tick off. As each quarter nears its end, and I haven’t written anything yet, a gentle reminder pops into my head: “Time to write an article!” Then I embark on a brainstorming session, considering various topics that have piqued my interest over time. After choosing one, I meticulously plan its structure and bring it to life through writing.

However, this time I wanted to push myself further. I’m venturing into the world of long-form writing, where I delve deeper into a single idea. This article is my first attempt, and I hope you find it engaging as I explore the power of words and the importance of sharing our unique gifts with the world.

People often react strangely when I tell them I’m a motivational speaker. Sometimes, I can practically hear the scoffs and chuckles. They seem to think it’s a job for people who have nothing else to do, or worse, a way to scam people. This attitude used to make me question my work.

But then I saw a video that changed my perspective. It was Vusi Thembekwayo receiving a birthday gift — a message from someone he spoke to in high school. Those words, years later, still had a deep impact on on the man, and he used those words to change his life. It reminded me of something I deeply believe in: the power of words.

Words, spoken or written, are incredibly strong. They can shape how we see ourselves and the world around us. They can change the course of our lives and the lives of others. I’ve always thought of my work as planting seeds. Each interaction, each message, is a seed sown in the fertile ground of human potential. And with each seed, I hold onto the unwavering belief that it has the power to blossom — to change a life, a generation, even a nation.

Think about Martin Luther King Jr.’s speeches. His words ignited a fire for change within countless individuals, propelling them to fight for equality and justice. But words can also be used for bad. They can incite violence and hatred.

Our words can unlock hidden truths within people, or reinforce the lies they tell themselves. They have the power to motivate and inspire, but also to mislead and deceive. Our words matter, and so do our actions.

Throughout my life, I’ve seen the power of people using their gifts. A well-timed podcast episode, a heartfelt song, or someone courageously pursuing their passion — these moments have been guiding lights for me during challenging times. Imagine the countless individuals who need your unique skills, talents, or gifts right now. Don’t let fear or societal labels hold you back.

If you ever doubt your ability to make a difference, remember this: your words, gifts, talents, and passions are the tools you need to create positive change. You don’t need a grand stage or a massive audience. What truly matters is believing in the potential of your gifts and using them fearlessly. Keep sowing your seeds — with unwavering faith, they can blossom into towering trees of change.

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Nifemi Aikomo
Nifemi Aikomo

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